Mother’s Day
is this coming Sunday, in case you were not aware! It is a bit hard to ignore
this day as advertisements for flowers and chocolates and gardening items have
flooded the ads the past few weeks. I think it is a perfectly lovely holiday
despite all the commercialism.
Mother’s Day
comes with a host of memories from my own mom. We bought sweet little mugs for
her coffee for a dollar down at the neighborhood drugstore. We made breakfast
leaving the kitchen in complete disarray but weren’t we proud of the pancakes
on the tray to be delivered for breakfast in bed? The six Saylor kids never
failed our mom on that day!
My own kids
were lovely too. Although they had some challenges to deal with as they
prepared pancakes on the wood cook stove! They picked violets and dandelions
for my bouquets, and what mother doesn’t tear up thinking of those early days
with young children. Sometimes they brought home cards with handprints and
little notes attached. Oftentimes they came home with little marigold plants in
paper cups. I have all of those cards in a trunk upstairs in a spare bedroom. I
thank all teachers for doing that even though those cards still make me cry
when I open the trunk.
With older
children and those who live distances away, it is harder. Two of my sons, Abe
and Adam, live in Charleston and in St. Pete. It is my middle child, by three
minutes, who lives here. Aaron is the one I want to talk about today. Usually,
I talk about all three of them in a conversation because it is hard to just
talk about one, but today is different.
Aaron with
his wife, Rachel, and their boys, Graham and Jonah, have built a wonderful life
together. Recently they moved to a small farm on the edge of Fremont complete
with fields and a pond for fishing and kayaking. Aaron loves the outdoors. In
high school he won a statewide contest for naming all the trees in the state.
He was a ten year 4-H member and went to college to study to be a naturalist
and a teacher.
One of my
favorite school stories about Aaron happened when he was in the first grade.
Lucky for us his teacher was the lovely Rita Deller. She had all my boys in
school. One early day in May Aaron announced to me that he was quitting school.
He told me he had already learned to read and write and was needed home on the
farm. I really wasn’t sure what to do about that, so I called Rita. I told her
about the situation and asked her advice. She was a very wise teacher and knew
just what to do.
The next day
was Monday and Aaron bravely told her that he was quitting school because he
was needed on the farm. She calmly and quietly took him aside and talked to
him. She told him how much she would miss him and who would be able to teach
the class about butterflies or birds or insects if he left the classroom. After
he thought about it, he decided to stay to help her teach the other students.
She was so wise. Aaron graduated from college, and I thank Rita Deller to this
day for her kind and small counseling.
Aaron is known
in our area as a class-act metal detector. If you lose a ring or other
important piece of jewelry, it is Aaron who is called to find it at the bottom
of Lake James. He will find it for you. Rachel often jokes about writing a book
called “The Metal Detector’s Wife.” Aaron knows where the fish are biting in
every lake (but he won’t tell), he knows where the mushrooms grow, which owl is
in the distance. He has hunted in Alaska (now there is a great story),
collected moths with his brothers in Honduras, Costa Rica and other countries
of which I never even know about. The summer after his first teaching year in
St. Pete he left a note for the family, “Going to Alaska, see you in
September.” He drove straight through, slept in a tent all summer, and caught
fish to pay his bills.
For Mother’s
Day, he brings me a bouquet of lilacs from the farm and a load of compost for
my garden.
These are my
sweet stories, what are yours?
Happy
Mother’s Day.